



(FeatureSource) Don't let stress from parenting rob you of modeling dreams; you may have just landed the most important modeling career of your life. Laura Dyer, author of "Look Who's Talking! How to Enhance Your Child's Language Development Starting at Birth," (Meadowbrook Press) reminds parents of the importance of being super "language" models. She offers the following suggestions:
Understand the importance of language. Strong language skills build a solid foundation for literacy for your child. This, in turn, impacts academic success. It's never too early to begin talking, singing and reading to your baby. Studies show that children whose parents talk to them often have significantly larger vocabularies during the preschool years.
Consult a good resource to check your child's language milestones. Develop a keen awareness of your child's level of comprehension and expression. Read and talk often to your child, matching what you say to their specific level or (one-step ahead). For example, if your child is speaking at the one-word stage, model one- or two-word phrases in a natural way.
Give your child lots of opportunities to communicate. Remember that babies can communicate even before they have words. Look for their gestures, eye-gazing and vocalizations. Model the words they will eventually use.
Follow your child's lead. Let your child choose an object and talk about it with him or her. Expand your child's utterances. Take a two-word phrase and turn it into a four-word sentence. This helps your child learn new vocabulary. Let your child change the topic of conversation and go with the flow.
Refrain from overtly correcting your child's grammatical errors. Children go through phases of learning sounds and grammar. When your child says something ungrammatical, model the correct sentence without drawing attention to the error.
Avoid asking your child lots of yes-or-no questions, especially those to which you already know the answer. Kids are smart and they pay closer attention to real, open-ended questions such as, “What would you like to do today?” Give them a chance to expound on things you see and read in their own words and phrases.
Don’t over-anticipate your child's needs. When you know your child wants something, wait just a few seconds and see how he or she might communicate that with you instead of providing it automatically. Help your child avoid frustration by asking him or her to show you the needed item with a gesture. If your child needs help, provide the words by giving choices of two things and letting your child pick one.
Remember, a child's vocabulary typically grows at least ten-fold between the ages of 18 months and three years. If your child shows warning signs of language delay, consult a speech-language pathologist. The impact of good early language skills is too important to take a “wait-and-see” approach.
(Featuresource) So you can't carry a tune in a bucket? It doesn't matter; your baby will listen to you more than the woman with the angel-like voice on the lullaby CD. “Music and language have many things in common and work well together to enhance children's development,” says Laura Dyer, author of Look Who's Talking!” (Meadowbrook Press).
You don't have to be musically inclined to enjoy music with your baby; your baby will prefer your voice. If you want to promote a love of music in your childrens' lives, expose them to lots of different kinds of music and show how much it can be enjoyed.
Play music in the background for your baby. This provides an early musical experience for an infant's developing brain. You can sing to your baby and enjoy the quiet music together. You can also leave classical music on for your baby to fall asleep. Some classical music has rhythm similar to the human heartbeat, which is relaxing. Keep the music soft so that it won't over-stimulate your baby.
Movement and music can be used to promote language skills. As your child grows, there are very simple action rhymes that can be done as your child lies on the floor or sits in your lap. Words to songs can help your child learn basic language concepts such as opposites, colors, and vocabulary words (body parts, animals). The words can be changed and personalized to include your child's name. Preschool children can learn how to rhyme easily in a song and can have tons of fun changing regular nursery rhymes to make up stories of their own with funny endings.
Music can play a role in the development of pre-literacy skills. If songs are chosen for the purpose of rhyming and interchanging sounds, they can promote sound awareness, an important pre-literacy building block. For example, if the line of the song says, "Vroom, vroom bumpety bop bop fair," Children could be encouraged to change any of those sounds to make a different rhyming word, or a whole chorus line that emphasizes a different letter sound like, "Zoom, zoom, zumpety zop zop zair."
Laura Dyer has produced a nationally recognized and awarded CD of Little Language Songs each specifically designed to enhance speech and language in some way. The songs are appropriate for children birth to eight, and Laura encourages parents to sing along with their children and talk about the characters and stories in the songs. For more information visit www.littlelanguage.com.
Before speaking their first words, babies are soaking up important concepts like how to take turns in conversation, make eye-contact and use their voices to achieve desired results.
By the time babies are nine to 10 months old, they will begin to intentionally communicate. “Parents and caregivers need to be in tune to baby's language,” says Dyer. “When your baby shows you an ‘act of communication’ as frequently as one per minute, it means he's on the verge of using his first words.”
Although there is a wide range of normal, most babies speak their first words some time between nine and 18 months. By age three, a typical child will have a 900-word vocabulary and be able to create three- to four-word sentences.
Tips for Parents There are many things that parents can do to encourage good early language skills in each stage of development. During the first year, parents can encourage babies to use their voices and help them comprehend words by pointing to objects while saying the names. As children grow older, parents can help them build good vocabularies by engaging them in conversation, by playing language games and by reading lots of books. Dyer’s book, "Look Who's Talking!" helps the parent know what the best techniques are for each stage.
“Children who have strong early language skills have a good foundation for literacy,” Dyer says. When children are learning to read, it's easier to recognize and sound out words that they are at least somewhat familiar with. Parents play an important role in helping their children get ready to read. Experts now recommend parents become more educated on pre-literacy building blocks such as language.
When you see red flags in your child's speech or language development, you should consider discussing these concerns with your pediatrician or local speech-language pathologist rather than waiting to see if the problems will resolve on their own. It's imperative to note ear infections and persistent fluid in the ears that can keep children from hearing sounds. Too much depends on early-language skills to ignore the warning signs.
Early language, literacy and academic success go hand in hand. Build your knowledge base in these areas, understand what your role is, and be proactive. Federal laws are in place to provide early intervention to any child showing significant developmental delays. Research has proven that early intervention is the best way to ward off persistent delays. For more information on early intervention programs in your state, visit www.nichcy.org or pick up “Look Who’s Talking!” ($12.00; Meadowbrook Press).
Laura Dyer, MCD, CCC-SLP
www.littlelanguage.com
1 Wetherby, A., Lonigan, C., Easterly, G., Stannard, L. "FIRST WORDS Project: Improving Early Identification of Young Children At-risk for Language and Reading Difficulties." Spotlight Forum Handout Presented at 2002 NAEYC Institute, 1, available at http://firstwords.fsu.edu.
2 Castrogiovanni, A. “National Strategic Research Plan for Language and Language Disorders, Balance and Balance Disorders, and Voice and Voice Disorders.” National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders. NIH publication No. 97-3217. Bethesda, MD, 1995.
3 Wetherby, A., Allen, L., Cleary, J., Kublin, K., & Goldstein. H. (2002). Validity and Reliability of the Communication and Symbolic Behavior Scales Developmental Profile With Very Young Children. Journal of Speech, Language, & Hearing Research, 45, 1202-1218.
4 Hall, S.L. Straight Talk About Reading: How parents can make a difference during the early years. Chicago: Contemporary Books, 1999, 80.
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Laura Dyer is the author of “Look Who’s Talking!” (Meadowbrook Press). She received her B.S. in communication disorders from Florida State University and her M.C.D. in speech-language pathology from Auburn University. She worked with children and adults as a speech-language therapist for nine years before beginning her own family. She lives near Nashville, Tennessee, with her husband and two young sons.
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Laura Dyer is the Author of "Look Who's Talking" (Meadowbrook Press)
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(FeatureSource) We cherish our children's first words. We record their unique phrases when they have "a yittle ear confection." But just how serious is language? Laura Dyer, author of "Look Who's Talking!" (Meadowbrook Press), says early language skills are extremely important. "Early language skills are our best predictor for success in literacy, later language skills and academic success."
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